A specific reframe for early brush-offs: "If she rejects me in the first 10 seconds, she hasn't rejected me. She doesn't know me yet." Rejection at the opener stage is treated as neutral information about a stranger's first impression, not a verdict on the man's worth — because genuine rejection requires the other person to have actually experienced who he is, which a 10-second exchange can't provide. See Confidence as Survivability ("I Will Be Okay") for the underlying frame this reframe supports.
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